This guy was primarily looking for a hypnotherapy session: he had low self-esteem, and while he is a very loving & caring person towards others, he didn’t really believe that he deserved love & care, himself. It’s a sad story that I’ve heard far too often, and one that I can relate to personally as well. He wanted to find a way to change his outlook on life, and wondered if hypnosis was a way to do that.
But it wasn’t only about therapy. This guy also wanted to explore his submissive side, and the fact that we were both attracted to each other certainly didn’t hurt! We agreed that the focus of the session would be on helping him to change his mindset, but if things went in a more sexual direction as well, that was totally fine.
When he arrived at my hotel room this morning, we started by talking about his history and why he felt the way he did. We ended up lying on the bed together, fully clothed, while we talked — I think he opened up to me more than he expected to. Then, I started a hypnotic induction and he drifted off into a light trance in my arms.
I focused on reminding him of the connections he had to the people he cares about, and how they care about him as well. How they want him to be happy and healthy, and that he deserves happiness and love too. I asked him to give himself permission to care for himself, the same way that he cares about others. It clearly hit him hard: he told me that he felt like I had broken something sad within him, and he was very grateful.
After awhile, he started exploring my body in a more sexual way, and I didn’t have any problem with that! We took things slow, but had a really nice time together. I never took him any deeper than a light trance, and didn’t give him any sexual suggestions, but it was nice to play with his body and give him the pleasure and happiness that he hadn’t allowed himself to feel in a long, long time.
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